Wednesday, May 11, 2011

May 14, 2007 11:46 pm

There is something about compliments that scares me. Part of the reason may be that I’m afraid of getting something that can be subsequently taken away. I put myself in the hands of other people if I let my emotions lean on their statements. 

Another reason: I am being put on a spot and now must watch what I do to keep them thinking this way about me. 
Another: There is a part of me that knows I am not as good as their compliments imply.  
Another:  I have often been insincere when saying similar things.
Flattery can stir me up as much as criticism– if i take it to heart.

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